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西兄,你知道美国有多少单亲孩子吗,不少也生活得很快乐.(当然,我们每个人都只是表达自己的观点和意见,没有强加的意思) -- HiThere - (0 Byte) 2004-4-05 周一, 08:51 (644 reads) |
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作者:seattle 在 海归茶馆 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
Matter of fact, a professor (forgot her name) in UC Berkley did a study, and wrote a book about that, that found children of divorced families are NOT in such bad/abnormal situations as most people think. Even if they are abnormal, the fact that almost half of American couples divorce makets that abnormality normal.
nohope's case is a little different from divorced families, though, and also different from many other single parent cases. The difference is, nohope hates the child's father. If nohope can forgive that man, things will be a lot easier. That hatrad will always be a shadow in the child's life, because I don't think nohope will be able to lie to her child about her feelings to the father, but if she carries that true feeling on to the child, the child won't be happy with hatred to a parent.
Again, the decision belongs to nohope herself. As long as she makes her choice with the awareness of all these goods and bads, she should have nothing to regret about in the future. Once a decision is made, stay with it and move on in life. Really, there is nothing wrong either way. There is only the question of what she wants, and how she handles the future.
作者:seattle 在 海归茶馆 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
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