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所跟贴 今天是我第一次踏上美国土地24周年--我和一个河南女孩的故事[原创] -- laozhong - (814 Byte) 2005-1-28 周五, 11:43 (7431 reads)
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文章标题: 我和一个河南女孩的故事[续完] (2499 reads)      时间: 2005-1-29 周六, 04:12   

作者:laozhong海归酒吧 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com

我和一个河南女孩的故事[续完]

上节说到卖油郎独占花魁
那是因为汉语没有过去将来时
实际上是it looked like 卖油郎would独占花魁
因为她已同意同我在校外约会! (此前一直是图书馆之类)

那时我同一位如今美国某大学TENURE上海人合租一地下室
连电话都没有(不是说没手机哦!)
这校外约会也是BY BUS
(几万人的大学城, BUS半小时一班)

结果事到临头
她又举棋不定
这本来很正常
就算到了今天
要跨出这一步
many girls could hesitate

但我当时主要是毫无自信
WHY ME???
NO REASON!!!
文科VS. WOOD 那是多年后的REASONING

所以我认为她HAS CHANGED HER MIND
OR SHE MUST HAVE GOT ADVICE FROM OTHER COMPETITORS
所以我就从半山坡退了下来

后来她可能想通了
打电话到我OFFICE
TO RESCHEDULE THE DATE
I HAD LOST ALL MY CONFIDENCE
I DECLINED
SHE SAID SHE WOULD THEN ASK MR. X TO GO WITH HER
(MR. X 就是她同专业的恩师)
I SAID THAT WOULD BE FINE.

At that time, I thought
I was much less competitive than
anyone of the more than a dozen of competitors

until I received a letter from my wife (now ex-wife)

She said she went on a business trip to Hangzhou
She incensed at 灵隐寺
prayed for our earlier reunion

我恍然大悟
IT MUST BE HER!!!
COZ I HAVE NEVER DONE THINGS LIKE THIS PREMATURELY

I asked her when she incensed
she answered accurately
coz it was a short business trip

u know what?
after converting for the time difference
she incensed at the SAME hour of the SAME day the Henan girl sort of changed her mind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

========================================

thereafter
she reportedly told Mr. X all about my doing
in exchange for his trust and help

He spread my courtship in our mainland Chinease circle
I then became the #1 scandal on the campus
though limited to Chinese (Taiwan included, but not HK)

I had no face to go to class
I slept in my basement for several days
my Shanghai roommate left
一个出身贫下中农的访问学者搬了进来

他问我要不要组织人轮班看着我
在当年那是怕你SUICIDE的意思

I would not suicide
but I decided to go back to China

Then came my best friend
He told me if I went back to China
my whole life including my wife's and my sons'
would be all destroyed

so I still took the final exams
without attending classes
for the rest of the semester

while my best friend did save my life
and I do appreciate it for the rest of my life
he was indeed interested in
how I made it that far
given that I seemed to be the worst among the competitors

I told him EVERYTHING
coz I NEED confession

At the same time
I applied for an RA nationwide (USA)
so that I could transfer out

USC (Los Angeles) doubled my after-tuition pay
and I started my new life the next semester

I took Greyhound crossing USA

Before my departure
I sent the Henan girl a Chinese short story I copied elsewhere
without a return address

The short story talks about
a boy loves a girl
the girl does not like the boy
she reported to the Party that
he said sth counter-revolutionary
he was then put into jail
ten years later
the guy was released
his friends were so surprised that
he was still in love with her.

22年后的今天
我还记得那小说中的女孩名叫闵星

=======================================

more surprise came in 1993, 12 years later

I flew to LA to see a fortuneteller
a 20something girl from Beijing

my cousin introduced her to me
my cousin has only a junior high school diploma
she married a foreigner and came to USA in 1990
she did not even know I divorced in 1985

the fortuneteller did not ask me any question
using her left hand to feel my pulses and
her right hand to write on an A4 paper

when she wrote "1981年感情上当头一棒"
I was sooooo shocked!!!!!!

I asked 是怎么个当头一棒?
她在上面那句话后面added
"命从天上来"
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

我现在还留着那张纸
正反面共一千多字
还有更多不可思议的事
过去将来无一不验

所以我现在再也不敢算命了










作者:laozhong海归酒吧 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com









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