he is talented and ambitious...He works hard... almost have no time to company me...I trust him and haven't seen any excuses...(I can feel that he is very busy and the pressure he is carrying on) . I would like to release some pressure out of his shoulders and support him right by his side...But his suggestion really puzzles me...
I guess he may think a student life is easier than the life of a busy so called white-collar without a good pay in China...He said he didn't expect me to raise the family...just said a phd may do me good in china...is it true? does a foreign citizenship help in china?